Now when I started this journey in finding my way through my life I did plan on taking others with me in hopes that they would help me find out more about myself. However, I never planned on taking their problems and excess baggage with me. I told about my friend in the "OH YEAH I'M MARRIED" post. Well now there is more to the story then this guy being married.
Like I said before finding out he was married was just the tip of the iceberg for her. The current wife has been e-mailing her telling some interesting details. This guy has not paid child support since his wife filed for it. This means that she had to put a warrant out for his arrest and this thing stretches way to East of the Mississippi River (why cause he is/was a truck driver and he could be anywhere at any point in time). Okay that is issue number two as to why she needs to leave him. She has now found out that this dude has another child!!! This little boy is 5 which makes him older that the little girl he had with his wife. SMH.....why the secrets.....so now lets tally up the lies..1. he lied about being married 2. he lied about paying child support 3. he lied about having anymore children 4. he has a warrant for his arrest and a PI on his behind. This has the making for a Saturday Night Lifetime movie only after being aired on Nancy Grace or some other courtroom drama show.
The truly sad part is that she is not going to leave him. She talks this game about giving him a timeline to resolve everything but dude has been married since 2006 and has no plans on handling the situation. He is comfortable where he is and as long as he keeps crying when talking to her she will buy it!! How long will she allow herself to be hurt before she realize that she is settling and doesn't have too.
Monday, June 15, 2009
Sunday, June 7, 2009
Oh Yeah....I'M MARRIED!!!!
No I didn't jump the broom, but I received some serious news the other day that involves marriage. Okay here it goes:
A very close friend of mine has been seeing this guy for almost a year now (sometime this summer will make a year). After about 2 months of dating she moved him in with her and her 3 children. Now during this time, or as I call it, the lovey dovey stage everything was smooth. He was working and helping take care of the kids as well as the house. He met her needs and she met his... Well around November he lost his job and for some reason they decided to move in together. Now being that he had no job, he didn't have the money to help with getting all of the needed this straight so they could move. So my friend decided to take a trip and visit an "old friend". This dude broke her off with the entire funds that she needed to move..........moving forward.........................
They are now living in this rented townhouse with her paying all of the bills and dude collecting about $190 in unemployment (he still aint got NO JOB)! So basically he is living rent free. Well out of the blue my friend gets a message on her FB account asking if she is dating dude. Now the name kind of threw her off because she recognized the first name but the last name belonged to her guy...following so far...Being the curious one she called and asked him what his "baby mama" name was. The first name matched but something still didn't add up....are your wheels spinning a little harder now lol....After a couple of back and forth conversations he finally comes out and tells her that he went to the JOP (Justice of the Peace).....so dude + baby mama + same last name = MARRIED!!! You got the equation right this joker is married.
Now knowing this info any woman in her right mind would put his behind out right...YES...well my friend is still living it up and playing house with him because he told her that "baby mama" is living up state and they are separated for lack of better words. UMMMM.....He lied and is probably still telling lies. She is settling because of some stories he's feeding her about not being able to find any records of him being married to ol' girl when he called such and such offices-----I DON'T BELIEVE THAT ONE!!! This would be the end all be all for me cause he hid a huge secret!!!
I'm gonna stop here:for one I'm at work and she works with me and two: they have some other ish that needs to get worked out, but this is the main event headline.
A very close friend of mine has been seeing this guy for almost a year now (sometime this summer will make a year). After about 2 months of dating she moved him in with her and her 3 children. Now during this time, or as I call it, the lovey dovey stage everything was smooth. He was working and helping take care of the kids as well as the house. He met her needs and she met his..
They are now living in this rented townhouse with her paying all of the bills and dude collecting about $190 in unemployment (he still aint got NO JOB)! So basically he is living rent free. Well out of the blue my friend gets a message on her FB account asking if she is dating dude. Now the name kind of threw her off because she recognized the first name but the last name belonged to her guy...following so far...Being the curious one she called and asked him what his "baby mama" name was. The first name matched but something still didn't add up....are your wheels spinning a little harder now lol....After a couple of back and forth conversations he finally comes out and tells her that he went to the JOP (Justice of the Peace).....so dude + baby mama + same last name = MARRIED!!! You got the equation right this joker is married.
Now knowing this info any woman in her right mind would put his behind out right...YES...well my friend is still living it up and playing house with him because he told her that "baby mama" is living up state and they are separated for lack of better words. UMMMM.....He lied and is probably still telling lies. She is settling because of some stories he's feeding her about not being able to find any records of him being married to ol' girl when he called such and such offices-----I DON'T BELIEVE THAT ONE!!! This would be the end all be all for me cause he hid a huge secret!!!
I'm gonna stop here:for one I'm at work and she works with me and two: they have some other ish that needs to get worked out, but this is the main event headline.
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